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Being a νονά (godmother, or nona) or νονός (godfather, or nono) in a Greek Orthodox baptism is a big honor and comes with important responsibilities. Many folks ask "What are the Orthodox Baptism rules? Rules for parents will differ from the rules (and roles) of godparents. We invite you to read about some of the Orthodox Baptism traditions. Here’s a guide to help you prepare.
Meet with the Priest
Ensure you’re baptized Orthodox Christian and in good standing with the Church. Some churches require confession or a short class on the role of a godparent.
Choose the Baby’s Baptismal Name
Typically, a Greek Orthodox Saint’s name, often matching the name day the child will celebrate
Please verify you preparations with the parents and the Church
A Ladopana (Λαδόπανα, Baptismal Outfit) is a special white clothing set that the godparent provides for the baby in a Greek Orthodox baptism. It is used immediately after the baby is anointed with oil and baptized in the holy water. The Ladopana set is provided by the godparent, as part of their spiritual commitment to the child.
What’s Included in a Ladopana?
White Towels – One large towel and one small towel for drying the baby and for the priest to use.
White Sheet – Used to wrap the baby after baptism.
Undergarments (Cotton or Linen) – A sleeveless undershirt, bloomers, or a bodysuit..
Baptismal Outfit – A white gown or a formal outfit (depending on tradition).
Small Cap or Hat (optional) – Some families include a small head covering.
Symbolism and Importance
The baby is dressed in these garments immediately after baptism, signifying their new Christian identity.
A Lambada (Λαμπάδα) is a large decorated baptismal candle that the godparent provides for the child's Greek Orthodox baptism. It symbolizes the light of Christ and is an essential part of the baptismal ceremony. The godparent presents the Lambada at the church.
Key Features of a Lambada
It is a tall candle, usually white or ivory.
It is decorated with ribbons, flowers, crosses, or small icons.
The design often matches the baptism theme or colors.
It is lit by the godparent (nona and/or nono) during the baptism ceremony.
Role in the Baptism
The priest lights it during the ceremony as a symbol of the child receiving the Holy Spirit. The candles are then kept as a keepsake.
A Ladoset (Λαδοσέτ or oil set) is a small set of items used during a Greek Orthodox baptism for the anointing ritual. It includes essential components that symbolize purification, protection, and the presence of the Holy Spirit. The godparent is responsible for bringing the Ladoset to the church.
What’s Included in a Ladoset?
Small Bottle of Olive Oil used by the priest to anoint the baby before immersion in the baptismal font.
Bar of Natural Soap – Used for washing the priest’s hands after the anointing.
Three Small White Candles – These are lit during the ceremony and symbolize the Holy Trinity.
Role in the Baptism
The Ladoset is a significant part of the baptism and is often presented in a small decorative box or bag.
The Baptismal Cross and Chain (Σταυρός - Stavros) is the most important gift a you will give during the baptism ceremony. It is meant to be worn for a lifetime and will remind them of you throughout their life. The selection process can be fun and nerve-wracking all at once. Do not hesitate to call us for advise and please be reminded that having a piece made in Greece takes time—so factor in 2 months of lead-time just to be safe.
Traditional Features of the Baptismal Cross
Material and Quality
Gold (14K or 18K) – The most traditional choice, durable and timeless.
White Gold or Silver – Stylish and elegant, though gold is preferred in Greek tradition.
Two-Tone Gold (Yellow & White) – A modern, versatile option.
Design Styles
Baptism crosses come in all shapes and sizes. They can be in the Byzantine style such as the one shown here, they can be modern and minimalist, or anywhere in between. The choice is entirely up to the parents and godparents but here is some advice:
The cross will be worn at the very least on special occasions, but it may very well wind up being worn every day of their life. The only thing you really need is pride in your selection and the reasonable expectation of the godchild being proud of it too.
Chain Length and Style
For babies/toddlers: 14”–16” chain (shorter, safe length).
For older children: 18” chain (room to grow).
For adults (if gifting later in life): 20”+ chain.
Opt for a sturdy chain that can withstand everyday wear.
Symbolism and Importance
A baptism cross is a symbol of faith, lifelong spiritual protection, and a reminder of their family's love.
Witness Pins (Μαρτυρικά - Martyrika) are small decorative pins or bracelets given to guests at a Greek Orthodox baptism as a keepsake. They symbolize the witnessing of the baptism and serve as a reminder of the child's entrance into the Christian faith.
Traditional Features of Martyrika
Typically designed as small pins, brooches, or bracelets. They can include a tiny cross, sometimes paired with a white or light blue ribbon (symbolizing purity and Greek tradition), a small evil eye charm (Μάτι - Mati) for protection and / or a pearl or bead as a decorative element.
When And How They Are Given
The godparent usually orders or makes the martyrika before the baptism. During the ceremony or at the reception, the godparent or family members distribute them to all guests. Guests wear them as a symbol of participation and blessing from the event.
Modern Variations and Personalization
Some families engrave the baby's name or baptism date on the pin. Styles range from traditional (simple cross and ribbon) to modern (customized bracelets with beads, names, or charms). Handmade martyrika are popular, often crafted with love by the godparent or family.
Symbolism and Usage
Acknowledgment of Witnesses – They are given to all guests who attended the baptism to signify that they witnessed and celebrated this special event.
Keepsake and Blessing – Many guests keep the martyrika as a blessing or token of the event.
Bonbonieres (Μπομπονιέρες) are small favors or gifts traditionally given to guests at a Greek Orthodox baptism. They serve as a symbol of blessings, gratitude, and purity and are an essential part of Greek baptisms, weddings, and other special occasions.
What’s Included in Bonbonieres?
Koufeta (Κουφέτα): White sugar-coated almonds, always in an odd number (usually 5 or 7), symbolizing indivisibility, unity, and good fortune.
Decorative Packaging: Typically they are in tulle, organza, or satin fabric and placed in small boxes, bags, or jars that also contain ribbons, beads, and religious charms (such as a small cross or evil eye charm)
When And How They Are Given
Distributed after the baptism ceremony, usually handed out at the church entrance or the reception. Given by the godparents or family members to all guests. Guests take them home as a keepsake, symbolizing their participation in the special day.
Modern Variations And Personalization
Customized Designs: Families often match the bonbonieres to the baptism theme or colors.
Different Fillings: Instead of almonds, some include chocolates, sugared candies, or religious tokens.
Handmade or Store-Bough: Many families prefer handmade bonbonieres for a personal touch, while others order them from specialty stores.
Symbolism and Meaning
Blessing and Celebration: They represent the joy and spiritual significance of the baptism.
Purity and New Life: The white sugared almonds (koufeta) inside symbolize the child's pure and blessed new beginning in the Christian faith.
Tradition and Good Wishes: The almonds represent happiness, health, and prosperity for the child and family.
The Cross
A baptism cross is a meaningful Christian symbol representing faith, salvation, and spiritual rebirth. It signifies a believer's commitment to Christ, marking the beginning of their spiritual journey through baptism.
Often seen as a source of divine protection and blessing, the cross serves as a reminder of baptismal promises and Christian teachings. Frequently given as a gift by family or godparents, it carries deep sentimental and spiritual value, sometimes becoming a cherished heirloom passed down through generations.
Konstantinata
The gold Byzantine coin was first minted by Emperor Constantine the Great and became a pivotal monetary unit in both the Byzantine Empire and Medieval Europe. Featuring his likeness, it came to be known as the Konstantinata.
Beyond its role as currency, the Konstantinata symbolizes the mystery and enduring power of an empire that continues to resonate with Greeks around the world. Today, the tradition of giving coins as a symbol of blessing and good fortune remains widespread—a practice that traces its origins back to this historic coin.
The Filakto / Phylactery / Martyrika
Also known as a phylactery, a filakto is a small amulet or charm used in Eastern Orthodox Christianity, particularly within Greek traditions, to provide spiritual protection and blessings to the wearer.
In modern practice, a filakto is often pinned to a newborn’s pillow to safeguard them from misfortune or evil spirits until they are baptized. In some cases, individuals continue wearing it well into adulthood as a source of ongoing protection. Whether given at birth or kept for a lifetime, the filakto serves as both a cherished family tradition and a meaningful keepsake.
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